Asian dating questions
A good example of this is telling a woman you love her shoes, then mentioning that your 11 year old niece bought a pair just yesterday.Negs don’t work very well in Asia because the way people form rapport, and relate through humour, is slightly different.
If you know these you’ll avoid being tripped up like most guys who visit Asia. The most important thing to consider in Asia is that girls need to feel like you really like them because they are generally insecure.
This is one of the biggest cultural differences between East and West – girls in the West care more about how much they like you because they don’t need to feel ‘secure’ in the same way Asian girls do.
If a bunch of Westerns go out to the club and one of the girls meets a guy she likes and is making out with him then the rest of the group won’t judge her too badly for it.
If a bunch of Asians go out to the club together, however, and one of the girls ends up making out with a guy she just met the rest of the group will wonder if she is drunk or a hooker.
Hey guys, Kane here, your Chinese based dating coach.