One way to put a time cap without coming off as rude: Tell him that you already have dinner plans with a friend or need to be home to walk the dog or have to finish up some office work, but would love to meet him for coffee or a glass of wine before you have to go.
“Build it into a natural excuse and stick with it,” Fisher says.
A lot is at stake here and when it's right, it's so right: Fisher says 61 percent of men and 51 percent of women say they have fallen in love at first sight.2. His first words to you aren't as important as the sound they make.
You don't even have to register what he's saying to know whether his voice stirs a reaction in your loins.
The way most of our parents or grandparents met would probably creep younger generations out – it might all be “a little too intense.” Algorithms in online dating allow people to filter out their deal breakers, farewell the frogs, and get on with the falling in love part. I mean, you know, most of us have this love map of what we’re looking for and you’ve got to pair up somebody.