Choose one of these attributes and write a brief essay (a paragraph or two) about why the quality matters to you, why a future partner would find it valuable, how you’ve expressed it in past dating or relationship scenarios, or how you would do so in the future.Write one or two essays a day until you feel better about yourself.
You're all having a good time, chatting and having a couple of drinks, when you see a beautiful stranger at the other side of the room.
You decide to come up to him or her and start a conversation. Feeling rejected, you walk back over to your group of friends and spend the rest of the evening dwelling on how rejected you now feel.
If there is one thing that most people can't stand, one thing that almost always gets an intense, emotional response, it's rejection. Scenario 1: You go out to a bar on the weekend with your friends.
Or rather, at some point or other, we established a certain response as our go-to, and we never bothered to alter that response moving forward. Let me give you two scenarios, and let's see if you can tell which one warrants a response of feeling rejected.
All this self-punishment makes you feel utterly miserable and you wonder when you became so weak, needy, or desperate.