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The precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate within the community."BDSM" is an umbrella term for certain kinds of erotic behavior between consenting adults.
Sometimes the female-specific terms "mistress", "domme" or "dominatrix" are used to describe a dominant woman, instead of the gender-neutral term "dom".
Individuals who can change between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles—whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship—are known as switches.
BDSM is now used as a catch-all phrase covering a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures.
BDSM communities generally welcome anyone with a non-normative streak who identifies with the community; this may include cross-dressers, body modification enthusiasts, animal roleplayers, rubber fetishists, and others.
The terms "top" and "bottom" are also used: the top is the instigator of an action while the bottom is the receiver of the action.